“Be solutions focused, versus problem- focused”-RJ Barros
RJ Barros is a guy that I haven’t had the pleasure of meeting yet, however as I was reading a short Bio on he and his wife today I felt that I could identify with what he had to say.
They are a young couple who have fought adversity and fear to build a very successful networking business, which earns them a very comfortable income and lifestyle.
Rj’s statement takes me back to a book I mentioned earlier in my blog; “QBQ -By John Miller.” The premise of the book is that we take personal responsibility to create solutions to the challenges that we face in our personal and professional lives.
I believe if we were to look around us , rather than just focusing on ourselves and the drama that might exist in our lives, we would see that there are brave and courageous people overcoming far bigger challenges than ours each and ever day. Learn from those people how to be a solutions focused person, rather than a problems focused person . As we make this change in the way we function you will find that there will be a “ripple “affect, that spreads out from you and impacts those who might be watching you ; resulting in change of thought on a mass level.
I strive to be a “Ripplemaker”, how about you?
Dan
Reblogged this on Daniel F Baker and commented:
As I was looking back in my archives I felt it necessary to share this again. I continue to witness individuals who lay blame on others, rather than finding solutions and helping create a better outcome for others as well as themselves.